We received a call that John's Uncle needed some help with health and aging issues, so we decided to take a quick trip to Oxnard to see what we could do.  It was a relief to see things were not as serious as we had feared, but we are now prepared to help him with choices that will need to be made in the future.  The huge bonus of the whole trip was that we got to attend Gabe's school Christmas program.  He did a great job singing and acting and it was fun to see it all in person.  After the program, we went to dinner with Abby's parents who had also come to the program.  We feasted on some great Korean food.  Then went back to Gabe's place and watched him open the gifts we had brought down for him.